
Tomorrow Josh and I will have been married for six years. Six years ago today we were in Las Vegas, Nevada looking through the yellow pages of the phone book in our room at The Frontier hotel. The hotel doesn't exist anymore but I still have that page from the phone book advertising the Graceland Wedding Chapel. Six years ago tonight we were standing in line at the Clark County courthouse to get our wedding license. Six years ago tomorrow I married the man who was the guy I'd fallen for four years earlier. Here's our story:
September 1997 - I'm standing at the vending machine in the break room on the second day of my new job at Toys R Us in Athens. A guy joins me and introduces himself. I don't remember what he said but I do remember I couldn't stop thinking about him. I was 17, he was 21. We were worlds apart and became instant friends.
Spring 1998 - Josh invites me to go get ice cream after work one day. I call my mom for permission. She says no. He was too old.
Summer 1998 - Josh moves to Atlanta to finish school.
Fall 1998 - Josh shows up at my house (we'd moved - how did he find us!?) and invites me to join him taking his dog to the park. This time my mom says yes.
May 1999 - I'm leaving my high school graduation with my current boyfriend and I turn around and there's Josh. He'd come! He was with his current girlfriend and he'd sat through my long, boring high school graduation with her. I gave him a hug and ran off. To this day I hope that was enough of a Thank You for coming.
Fall 1999 - I'm in college. We keep in touch through Instant Messenger on my suite-mate's computer (I don't have one yet). He comes up for a party. I don't go. I hope he understands and had a good time anyway. Again, he must settle with just a hug from me.
Summer 2000 - He's in town. We have plans. I stand him up. I'm still sorry.
Winter 2001 - I become available for dating. I'm in Atlanta for a family event. He picks me up from the hotel and we get dinner or something. We go back to his apartment to walk the dog. Josh kisses me. Just a peck. He takes me back to the hotel. I'm on could nine. I still remember what I was wearing.
Spring 2001 - We're both going to be in Athens for the weekend. We have dinner at Gyro Wrap. We walk until I get blisters through the UGA campus. We go to the Spring UGA football game the next day. I have dinner at his parents that evening. They mention how nice it is to have all the chairs full at the table. I'm smitten.
May 2001 - I teach Josh about camping. We vacation at Lake Lure, North Carolina.
Summer 2001 - I start Nursing school in Athens. We begin our year of seeing each other only on weekends.
August 2001 - We vacation at Myrtle Beach and get in a huge fight. I think it's over. I can't breathe.
It's not over.
December 2001 - We vacation in Washington DC and have a wonderful time.
April 2002 - He moves in to a tiny basement apartment of a friend's lake house in Gainesville. I move in too, for the summer.
May 10, 2002 - I worked in Athens that day. My ear hurt. I stayed late to see the nurse practictioner who told me I had an ear infection. I drive an hour to our lake home. Josh and I get in an argument that turns into a fight. I don't have any idea what it was about. I do remember how it ended. I told him, "I love you so much, if you asked me to go to Vegas right now and marry you, I would!" (a dare? a threat? what was I saying!?) I walked outside. He joins me, fight over, and we decided to go to dinner. After ordering, but before the food arrives, Josh says to me, "Let's do it."
"Let's do what?" What was he talking about? "Let's go to Vegas."
"We can't go to Vegas!" "Why not?"
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Because..." "because..." "I don't know."
I can't eat. He's serious. I'm serious! We're going to go to Las Vegas. And GET MARRIED!!!
It's pretty late. We go to Dimo Jewelry store. They're closed. They hear our story and let us in. We pick out rings. We drive back to the house. Is this real? We get on the internet and have trouble finding affordable plane tickets. What if we can't go? That's awkward. Then are we engaged. Wait! There's a plane/hotel last minute deal and we can afford it! Click here, credit card number there, print that page, we're booked! We tell our housemate. We have to, he has to dog sit.
May 11 - We're at the Atlanta airport pretty early. We've got a long day of flying and lay-overs ahead of us. We're waiting. We decide to call people. We call everyone, quite the surprise awakening on this Saturday morning. We fly. We arrive in Las Vegas that afternoon. We find the hotel, I take a shower, Josh browses the aforementioned phone book, we decide we're too tired to get married tonight, we've got 3 days, let's do it tomorrow after we've had some sleep. We find the courthouse, get the license then drive by the chapel to make sure it fit's the requirements. Wait! We have requirements now!?
May 12 - We're scheduled to get married at 11:00. We arrive a few minutes early. We forgot the license. We drive back to the hotel and get it. We're a few minutes late. What if they aren't there!? They're there. They're so nice. They let us get married. THEY LET US GET MARRIED! We get married. Married. Wow.

We take pictures outside the chapel. Someone honks and cheers. I'm glowing. We lunch at the Starlight and spend the afternoon at Red Rock Canyon. His mom phones. She calls me Mrs. Cauthen. I laugh. We spend the evening at the Stratosphere. I don't think we ever stopped smiling.

May 13 - We drive out to Hoover Dam. What is this ring on my finger? We fly back that night, no layovers, thank goodness. I'm married. I have a husband. Husband. What a weird word.

May 14 - Back to work and the real world as Mr. & Mrs.
Six years. Tomorrow Josh and I will have been married for six years. I love him as much now as ever. Happy Anniversary, Joshua!